PERFECT Tips: How To Keep A Guy Interested After Sleeping With Him

Since you already slept with him, it’s going to be a challenge, but then again, if he’s not into you after you had sex with him, then he isn’t someone you need to be chasing after. Can I get an amen?

Okay, you’re here, so it’s about time I showed you some guidelines to follow when it comes to keeping him interested in you. Time to get him chasing you for more.

#1 Don’t start acting needy.

This happens with both men and women when we’re into someone, we text them eagerly. You just had sex with him so you already went to an intimate place with him.

In his eyes, when you text him an hour later or every morning after, he’s thinking you’re wanting more. And you can want more from him, but don’t scare him away. Don’t be too eager. Let him text you after you hook up with him.

#2 Don’t expect too much.

Yes, you just had sex with him, but this doesn’t mean he’s going to ask you to be his wife. Keep those expectations low, girl. You may be thinking that the sex was special. It may have been special for you but that doesn’t mean he’s going to see it the same way as you do.

#3 Let him know you liked the sex.

Listen, when you sleep with someone new, you obviously have a lot of thoughts going on in your mind. You want to know if they liked it, if you pleased them. It’s normal. Though many men act like they’re tough, they’re not.

Most of them have fragile egos and are worrying about the same things as you are. Let him know how you felt sleeping with him, give him a little ego boost.

#4 Spend time with him after sex.

If you had sex with him and are planning on having sex with him again, spend time with him. After having sex, hang out with him, cuddle, watch a movie, talk. The more time you spend together, he’ll be able to get to know you and vice versa. If you just have sex and leave right away, that’s all it will ever be. 

#5 Look good. Not for him though.

You need to look good for yourself. That way, you’ll feel confident around him. By doing that, you’ll show him that even though you may be interested in him, you’re not goo-goo eyed over him. Other men will look at you, and he’ll notice that he’s not the only one that has eyes on you.